Sorry it took me a few days, been super busy. Yeah, the XHCI handoiff was disabled, but I did go back in to the bios to make sure and it still was disabled.
I am at a loss, and feel like a moron LOL.
I really have no clue from here, what to do. I have built pc's for many years, and MacOS is so finicky.
Any other ideas, or thoughts would be appreciated.